October is more than just pumpkin spice lattes and fall foliage; it’s a time for reflection, resilience, and rallying together to make a difference. This year, the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV) calls on us to Heal, Hold & Center survivors, especially those navigating systems of oppression, throughout Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) and beyond.
Every year, around 10 million people become victims of domestic violence, which equates to just about 20 people. Every. Single. Minute. As many as 3 out of 4 Americans know of another person that has experienced abuse. A lot of the time, nothing is done about it.
There is change in the air; An intense awareness of what it means to be brown or black. How cultural differences impact the delivery of equity and justice, particularly for Interpersonal (Domestic) Violence survivors. And there’s a COLLECTIVE movement to correct this. We are not alone.
‘Cultural sensitivity’ is the call to action for survivors, validating Ashiyanaa’s activism of over 34 years on this front. The National Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV) says “we must work together, embrace the many cultural ways we can heal from violence and oppression, commit to holding space for survivors, and center those most marginalized in all of our efforts to end domestic violence.”
Heal:
Domestic violence leaves scars, not only on the body but on the soul as well. It’s a wound that demands attention, care and understanding. That is exactly what we extend to all our clients at Ashiyanaa. In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to forget the importance of healing, but this month serves as a reminder that healing is a journey, and it’s never too late to begin. Encourage survivors to seek support, whether it’s through therapy, counseling or support groups. Remember, healing is a personal journey, and there’s no deadline.
Hold:
Much like the comforting embrace of a loved one, ‘Hold’ is a word that carries a gentle yet firm weight. This October, we invite you to hold onto hope, and most importantly, hold those accountable who perpetrate violence. It’s time to stand in solidarity with survivors, to let them know they are not alone in their struggle. Be that shoulder to lean on, that listening ear, or that helping hand. Check in on friends and family.
Center:
As a community, we are called upon to center domestic violence awareness in our hearts and minds. It’s not just a fleeting thought but a constant reminder to promote education, raise our voices, and support those working tirelessly to combat domestic violence. By centering our focus, we can help break the cycle of violence and create a world where every individual feels safe, and free from harm.
What does all this mean?
Survivors of the South Asian community, you are part of a GREAT social fabric. Don’t ever think you are alone!
– Critical service providers now have translation services and interpreters – Cultural sensitivity is changing attitudes at many service levels – emergency, law enforcement, healthcare, immigration support
– We at Ashiyanaa are here to help – Call our helpline on 1-888-417-2742 and leave a message – We have the support of partner organizations to see you empowered, with overall health and financial security
What if I know someone who has experienced DV?
Together we can heal the wounds, hold one another in times of need, and center our collective efforts towards creating a world where love and safety prevail.
Check out this article about how you can safely intervene:
https://righttobe.org/guides/bystander-intervention-training/
And remember… At Ashiyanaa, our light is always on 🕯🕯🕯
